So I’m going through my 5th divorce. It wasn’t entirely me this time! My soon to be ex husband just figured out that he is gay. Well he had an idea but it never occurred to him to tell me about it before we got married . Would have saved me a lot of hassle I’m sure. And now a ton of things make more sense to me. So I’m trying not to be upset over other peoples feelings but I kinda feel like the kid on the playground nobody picks to play 4 square. So I have to go sit on the monkey bars by myself and hang for a bit until I figure out when it’s time for lunch. Anybody else had this problem? I really kinda feel relieved in a sense and want to just up and run out the door yelling something about freedom and no more restrictions. I might wait until it’s an inconvenient time for him though. Just to make sure we are even , a little.